自己有多好，你的爱情就多好_BEC初级作文

自己有多好，你的爱情就多好

Your relationship will improve when you emit confidence and positive energy. When you feel valuable, it draws people in closer. When you feel down, depressed and low about yourself, it automatically drives people away.

当你散发出自信和正能量时你们的关系才会好转。你感受到自我价值，才会吸引别人更靠近你。在你情绪低落、沮丧、消沉的时候，人们也会自动地远离你。

You can even do an experiment in your own relationship. Next time you feel elated or proud of yourself, observe how your partner acts toward you. I guarantee you will notice a difference.

你甚至可以用自己的恋爱做一个试验。下次你欢欣鼓舞、骄傲自豪的时候，观察一下你的伴侣是如何对待你的，保证你会发现不同之处。

It is important to note that it is okay and healthy to somewhat rely on your partner, as you are a team and should work through issues together.

有一点需要注意的是，稍微依赖一点你的伴侣是可以的，也是明智的，因为你们是一个团队，应该一起解决问题。

When you are upset, angry or feel self-conscious, it is part of your partner’s job description to help support you as best as he or she can.

当你沮丧、生气或不自在的时候，他/她应该尽其所能去支持你。

Not only is it the obligation of your partner, but it should also be a role he or she is more than happy to play. If you can’t rely on your partner to a certain degree, how can it be considered a loving relationship? You are basically friends with benefits.