3.对于孩子们生活中的大事,他们通常会在自己解决完之后再以随意的口吻知会你。“我曾告诉约书亚虽然我没通过几何考试,得重修,但我还是会攒钱,在今年暑假和他一起搭车去土耳其。不过乔希因染发,穿眉环和刺青而被禁足了。我真的很庆幸我的父亲没那么严格。”
The Worst Parts About Being a Father
为父之哀
1. Phone calls from your kids in the middle of the night.
1.孩子们可能会半夜给你打电话。
2. Not feeling like you can say the heartbreakingly tender things to your kids you would like to say because you feel shy, or you're afraid they'd be embarrassed, or because you feel embarrassed or because your father never said stuff like that and you don't know how. The last reason is wholly unacceptable and indicates a need for serious emotional review, but all the other excuses are in fact the very BEST reasons to say the generous things you need to say and they need to hear.
2. 你感觉没法对孩子们说温柔感人的话。这也许是因为你觉得害羞,或者你担心孩子们会尴尬,或者你担心自己会尴尬,或者是因为你的父亲从未对你说过这样的话所 以你不知道该怎么对你的孩子表达。最后一个理由是完全无法让人接受的,也暗示着你需要进行深刻的情感反省。而事实上,其余的理由恰好是你该对你的孩子们说 这些温柔的话语的理由,同时也是他们需要听这些话的理由。
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