如果你发现了有危险的信号,有可能是你的同事存在认知盲点(或者你还没意识到大多数的好处)。所以,在你准备反驳的时候,先请求对方把观点说明白。
Try: "I'm not quite sure I understand what you're saying. Could you explain it differently?" Asking someone to explain her point in a new way should bring additional information to light. Of course, she'll be more likely to walk through her thinking if you choose the non-confrontational, "I'm not sure I get it..." over the arrogant: "I'm not sure I understand how this would work, given these five things I've already considered as well as their possible repercussions."
尝试这样:“我不太理解你所说的观点,能否换个说法解释一下?”请求对方用新的角度解释她的观点这样能够给予你更多新信息。当然,对方更乐意因为你的非对抗性的询问方式给你解释,比如“我不太明白......”而不是“我看不出来这个方法怎么能行,我早已考虑了这些因素以及它们的反作用。”
4.If you're trying to avoid office politics
4. 如果你想逃离办公室政治。
Repeat after me: "I must've missed that." Now, imagine a co-worker stops by your cubicle to ask your opinion on nasty words exchanged in a meeting, someone being passed over for a project, or some other salacious news.
请跟我说:“我想我肯定错过了。”现在,想象一下一位同事在你的小隔间旁边,用粗言秽语询问你对会议,别人在任务上的失误,或者其他不雅的资讯的观点。
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