11.They find reasons to love life.

11. 寻找生活的乐趣，热爱生活。

Irresistible people are positive and passionate. They’re never bored, because they see life as an amazing adventure and approach it with a joy that other people want to be a part of.

万人迷都是积极乐观，充满激情的。他们永远不会感到疲惫，因为他们把生活当作一次奇妙的冒险旅程，并带着快乐去探索，感染身边的人，以致别人也想成为其中的一员。

It’s not that irresistible people don’t have problems—even big ones—but they approach problems as temporary obstacles, not inescapable fate. When things go wrong, they remind themselves that a bad day is just one day, and they keep hope that tomorrow or next week or next month will be better.

然而万人迷并不是没有烦恼的，甚至是很严重的烦恼，但是他们把这些烦恼当作暂时性的障碍，而不是不可摆脱的命运。当事情乱了套，他们会提醒自己，糟糕的一天也只是一天而已，他们仍然会对明天或下周，或下个月充满希望，相信一切会好起来。

Bringing it all together.

小结

Irresistible people did not have fairy godmothers hovering over their cribs. They’ve simply perfected certain appealing qualities and habits that anyone can adopt as their own.They think about other people more than they think about themselves, and they make other people feel liked, respected, understood, and seen. Just remember: the more you focus on others, the more irresistible you’ll be.

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