Now, I see myself as a grown man and I wonder, "What happened to the magic of being in love? Why doesn't it feel the way it used to feel?"
现在我觉着自己成熟了,我就想:“恋爱的魔力哪去了?为什么我的感觉不似从前了?”
While I was driving, I decided I was going to figure this out for all of us, and I came to this conclusion: Love doesn't feel like it used to because people are much more screwed up now. We're a society of people who live in fear. The one thing we all want is the thing we fear the most. When we were kids, we knew how to let go, but now we're adults and we're stiff.
开着车,我就决定要为我们所有人弄清楚这件事,我得出了这个结论:爱情的感觉不似从前是因为人们现在更心烦意乱了。我们是一群活在恐惧中的人,我们都想得到的就是我们最害怕的。儿时我们知道如何放手,但现在成年的我们变得呆板了。
We want to be open, but we over analyze everything. We think there's a game that needs to be played. If you get back to somebody too quickly, you're going to be showing your cards, so you have to play it cool. We have all these games and rules people created. When we were younger we felt free to be vulnerable and offer our hearts.
我们想要敞开心扉,但对一切我们都想得太多。我们以为这是一场需要玩的游戏。如果你太快给别人答复,就亮出了自己的底牌,所以你要耍酷。人们创造了所有这些游戏和规则,我们年幼时容易付出真心,同时也易受伤害。
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