你可以委婉地向看你简介的人传达你内向的讯息,而不必站在山巅,向公众大声宣明你很内向。我喜欢在网上的介绍中稍稍提及我有多在乎个人的安静时间(这为我排除了寻求交际女郎的追求者们)。
Pay attention to what works for you, and only you.
关注对你奏效、且只对你有用的建议。
There’s a good chance that you’ll discover the subtle difference between the “just put yourself out there!” attitude and the kind of effort that aligns itself with your intuition and all of your wonderfully weird qualities. Try to narrow your focus. Tune out that well-intentioned advice, and keep what you want at the forefront of your mind. You could find someone to sit across from at the breakfast table while reading your own newspapers, Kindles, novels, or whatever. And proximity without talking is THE DREAM, you guys. Never forget.
这是个好机会让你察觉到, “只要人在那就好”的态度和你将它与直觉以及所有奇特个性联系起来而付出的努力,这两者之间细微的区别。试着缩小你的关注点。别听那条空有一番好意(实则不奏效的)建议,始终优先考虑你想要的。你兴许能找到某位坐你对面,让你能安心读自己的报纸、Kindle、小说或是其他读物的相亲者。不过我说,(相亲时两人)邻近却彼此无言是白日做梦哦。千万要记住!
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