人们都欣赏真诚的道歉,但是当你在表达“不好意思”(或仅仅是,“请让一让”时),你说了“对不起”,实际上在削弱你的专业性,甚至让你听起来有点气势凌人。
3. “Just … ”
3.“只是……”
There’s not enough justice in this world, but when you use the word just in the wrong context, you minimize your impact. “I just want to bring up one point,” for example, telegraphs that whatever you’re about to say is of little importance.
世界上永远没有足够的公平,而当你在不恰当的情况下使用了这个词,就会降低你的影响力。比如说,“我只想提出一点”,意味着无论你说什么都是没多大用处的。
4. “Know what I mean?”
4.“你懂我意思吗?”
While it’s smart to ensure that people you’re speaking with are on the same page, it’s pretty annoying--and uNPRofessional--to be so unaware of your verbal tics that you keep repeating the same phrases.
尽管确保他人听懂你所表达的意思是很聪明的做法,但是有时候也会非常恼人,而且也不专业,因为你没有意识到自己一直在重复这句口头禅。
5. Syllogisms
5.推断论
We live in a time of syllogisms: “It is what it is” and “It’s all good,” for example. These are harmless phrases in the abstract, and they were probably even witty once upon a time. But if you pepper your speech with them, you undermine the sense that you’re a serious person.
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