4.Don't let the bully make you feel bad about yourself
4.别因为被欺负而自暴自弃
The bully's goal is to intimidate you and diminish your self-worth. She chose you as her victim because she sees you as a threat. It is not because you have no value, but because you are very good at what you do. By intimidating you, she hopes to weaken you. By her reasoning, diminishing your self-worth will build her's up. Keep that in mind. Continue to do your job and do it well. Don't let workplace bullying cause you to fail.
欺负你,就是为了使你害怕、让你自己都瞧不起自己。一女的选你当攻击对象,其实是因为把你视作对手。所以说被欺负不是因为你没本事,而是因为你工作做得好而被人眼红。通过吓唬你,她希望的是让你变得虚弱,这样一来,达到彼竭而我盈的效果。要记住她的动机,并且继续好好做你的工作,别让碧池的雕虫小技打败了。
5.Make sure your boss knows you are doing a good job
5.让老板把你的好看在眼里
In addition to trying to make you feel bad about yourself, the bully will try to make you look bad to your boss. If your boss is the perpertrator, he may try to negatively influence his superior's opinion of you. Doing this is an essential component of his agenda as he endeavors to spread the word that you are not doing your job well. He may even go as far as to report the smallest infractions to your boss. Make sure your achievements are very visible and that you continue to make a good impression at work. As much as you'd like to be invisible to the bully, this is not the time to go under the radar.
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