在婚姻中的某一时刻,你或你的伴侣几乎不可避免地会对某个人产生轻微的、单纯的好感。如果发生了这样的事,诚实地对待它。不要置之不理并试图用一句话来最小化你的感觉。
9. "You shouldn't feel that way."
9、“你不应该有这样的感觉。”
There's nothing more belittling or condescending than telling your spouse what he should or shouldn't be feeling in any given situation.
在特定的情况下,没有什么比告诉你的配偶他应该或不应该有什么样的感觉更让人觉得你轻视或居高临下地对他了。
Try to understand your partner and be curious about his experience rather than dismissing what you don't understand.
试着理解你的伴侣,对他的经历感到好奇而不是对你不理解的事情不予理会。
10. "Don't wait up for me."
10、“不要熬夜等我了。”
This seemingly innocent remark suggests you're not going to bed at the same time, a habit that can be damaging to your relationship.
这种貌似无辜的言辞暗示你们不会同时上床睡觉,这是一个会伤害你们感情的习惯。
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