1. "We need to talk."
1. "我们需要谈谈。"
Even if you really do need to talk, this isn't a great way to start things off. "It always means that there is going to be a difficult conversation, and it's probably not going to go well," says Jill Murray, PhD, a licensed psychotherapist and author. "The fear of the unknown and the accompanying dread makes it worse."
即便你很想和他/她谈一谈,这句开场白也并不合适。"因为这意味着接下来的话题将十分沉重,且最终进展可能并不顺利,"持证心理治疗师兼作家吉尔·莫里(Jill Murray)博士说道。"对未知的担心以及随之而来的恐惧会使谈话更加糟糕。"
2. "You should know how I'm feeling."
2. "你应该知道我的感受。"
No matter how well your spouse knows you, they probably can't guess your exact emotions. "Humans aren't natural mind readers," notes David Bennett, a certified counselor and relationship expert. As Bennett explains, most people can't actually tell what someone is feeling if they're not told, even if that person is their spouse.
无论另一半是否了解你,他/她都不太可能猜出你的真实感受。"人类并非生来就会读心术,"持证顾问兼情感专家大卫·班内特(David Bennett)指出。班内特解释道,如果一个人未明确说明他/她的感受,大多数人是猜不到他/她的想法的,即便那个人是你的另一半。
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