The research also showed that though the thumbs up might come from complete strangers, the good they derive from it worked all the same.
研究还表明,即使点赞来自于完全陌生的人,也能给他们带来相同的愉悦感。
So, does it mean we should try our best to win as many thumbs up as possible?
那么,这是否意味着我们要尽可能获取更多的赞呢?
Not necessarily so if we know the reasons behind our desire for attention.
如果我们知道原因是在于我们渴望被关注,就没有必要了。
In "Why do people crave attention" by M.Farouk Radwan, he explained several cases in which people naturally longed for attention.
在M.法鲁克 拉德温所著的“为什么人渴望被关注”中,他解释了几种人们生来就渴求关注的情形。
Radwan said people who were an only child, who were used to being the center of attention in their house, may try to replicate these conditions. Feeling "overlooked and unappreciated" might also lead you to crave for attention. Other times, the state of being jealous, or wanting to cover your mistakes may also contribute to such longings.
拉德温表示,独生子女们常常是其家庭关注的焦点,所以他们可能会试图复制这种情形。当感到“被忽视或不被欣赏”时也会试图获取他人关注,其他诸如嫉妒,或试图掩盖错误时也会产生这种渴求。
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