“你可能会注意到你因为前任而引起的明显变化(例如,远离那些让你想起前任的人,不去那些有某种特殊意义的地方),但你可能不知道还有这么多无意识的改变。”
'Don’t worry, we are a product of our experiences so this is perfectly normal. However, where it becomes dangerous is when these unconscious changes stop us from starting new relationships and forming new connections.
“别担心,我们是自身经验的产物,所以这是完全正常的。然而,当这些无意识的改变阻碍我们开始新的恋情、建立新的联系时,它就变得危险了。”
'If you think you’re a victim of this, it’s important to concentrate on breaking off your feelings for your past relationships before ever starting a new one. For certain occasions a new love will make the break-up easier, but it’s rare and it’s hardly fair on your new partner. Break-ups are between two people, don’t endanger something special by starting a relationship before you’re totally unconnected.'
“如果你认为自己是这一问题的受害者,在开始一段新的恋情之前,集中精力打破你对过去感情的感觉很重要。某些情况下,一份新的爱情会使分手变得没那么难过,但这很少见,而且对你的新伴侣不公平。分手是两人之间的事情,在与前任完全结束之前,不要建立新的关系,以免伤害对你来说很特殊的人。”
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