I Love Kids But I Choose to Be Childfree
我爱孩子,但我选择成为丁克
My boyfriend and I love children but we have decided that we are better off without them. And it was not just my decision. While I enjoy my nephews, the kids of my friends, and other kids around me, I do not feel like I am lacking something in life.
男朋友和我都喜欢孩子,但是我们觉得没有孩子的生活会更好。这并不是我一个人的决定。当我和我的外甥、朋友的孩子以及其他的孩子相处时,我并没有觉得我在生活中缺少点什么。
I know the comparison sounds weird, but living a child-free life is like choosing to be lesbian. You cannot explain the choice. You just know that you want to live this way. I cannot imagine myself as a mom, and I do not worry about missing the opportunity to experience those feelings pregnant women do.
我知道这种对比听起来古怪,但是过没有孩子的生活就像选择成为女同性恋一样。你没办法解释这种选择。你只知道你想要这样去生活。我无法想象自己变成妈妈是什么样子,我也不担心错过体验那些只有孕妇才有的感觉。
Having a baby 'just because' is the worst thing a woman can do
拥有一个孩子"只因为"这是一个女人可以做的最糟糕的事。
Just because your parents want you to have a baby… Just because all of your friends have kids…
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