送给20多岁的姑娘们：这十件事你一定要记住_BEC初级作文

送给20多岁的姑娘们：这十件事你一定要记住

If there is one thing I know from experience, for most people, their "roaring twenties" are a time of exploration, confusion, and utter bafflement. I was recently asked what I would go back and tell my younger self. Here are a few things that came to mind.

如果说我从过往的经历中明白了某件事，那就是对多数人来说，她们风华正茂的二十岁是一段充满探索、困惑和极度迷茫的岁月。最近，有人问起我有什么道理是我希望告诉年轻时的自己的。以下就是我能想到的一些忠告。

送给20多岁的姑娘们：这十件事你一定要记住1

1. "Bad Boys" are best saved for movies.

1. “坏男孩”还是让他们留在电影里吧。

Bad boys are not exciting, they are chaotic, unreliable, unfocused and 99% of the time, they will cheat on you and don’t have a proper job. Just because they wear a cute outfit, flip off the establishment does not mean you should trust your heart or body with them.

坏男孩并没有什么让人兴奋的地方，他们混乱不堪，不可信赖，无法专注，他们会背叛你，更连个合适的工作都没有。仅仅因为他们衣着光鲜、反叛世俗，并不代表你可以把心或者身体放心交给他们。

2. You'll figure this out.

2. 有些道理，你总会明白。

Life is a series of steps and lessons. You only learn by doing, and sometimes, that means doing things you don't want to do, don't know how to do, shouldn't do and don't do well. Instead of worrying about what is not happening, pay attention to your growth and take it one step at a time.