送给20多岁的姑娘们：这十件事你一定要记住_BEC初级作文

送给20多岁的姑娘们：这十件事你一定要记住

人生需要一步一脚印，慢慢吸取教训。你只有去做了，才能学到东西。有时，这意味着做你不愿意做的事、不会做的事、不该做的事以及不擅长的事。与其担心你没有做到哪些，不如专注于你的成长，循序渐进。

3. No one will ever live up to a fantasy.

3. 没有人能满足你的幻想。

We, as humans, are flawed creatures. The point is not to find someone who is your "perfect match" but instead someone who shares your values, loves you, respects you, makes you smile, can live with your annoying habits, challenges you to be your best self and appreciates that you do the same for them.

我们生而为人，难免有所缺陷。关键并不是找到你的完美伴侣，而是找到那个ta，那个与你共享价值观、爱你敬你、让你开心、能忍受你烦人的小习惯、挑战你去做最好的自己、并能对你的同等付出心存感激的人。

4. Never chase anyone. Ever.

4. 不要追求别人。绝对不要。

People who want to be in your life will show up. Those who deserve to be in it will act right while there. Pretty simple.

那些想要出现在你人生中的人终会出现。值得出现在你人生中的人会在合适的时候做出正确的行动。就是这么简单。

5. Save a little money every week.

5. 每周都存点钱。

There will come a time in your life when you have an unexpected situation and need a little extra cash. Open a savings account and add to it every week. $100.00 when you can, $10.00 when you are really strapped.