谈话时你需要全神贯注----不要只是当你从手机屏幕上转移注意力时,你才愿意半心半意的瞥他们一眼。
Multitasking is a habit we're likely all guilty of. But you need to be present for your conversations, no matter how menial or futile they may seem. That means no scrolling through your email or subconsciously thinking about your grocery list. Give your conversational partners the attention they deserve.
同时执行多重任务,是我们都很容易养成的坏习惯。然而你要参与到对话中,不管谈话是多么的乏味或无用。那样意味着,你不能从头到尾滚动读一遍你的电子邮件,亦或不知不觉就思考你的购物清单。请给予谈话对象他们应得的注意力。
3.Using qualifiers.
3.使用修饰性词汇。
"Don't take this personally, but..."; "This might be a bad idea, but..."; or "I know what you're thinking, but..."
“不要以为我是在针对你,但是……”,“这可能是个坏主意,但是……”,或者“我知道你在想什么,但是……”。
Qualifiers exist for nearly every situation. But if you have the tendency to overuse them, you may be driving people up a wall. Why? Well, while these prefacing statements might seem like a great way to sugarcoat your sentences, they often just come off as condescending and unnecessary.
几乎每个地方都会用到修饰性词汇,但如果你过度使用修饰性词汇,就会使别人非常生气。为什么呢?用这些开场白修饰你的话,看起来是一个很好的办法,但其往往只会给别人带来一种居高临下和没有必要的感觉。
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