4.Equating your experiences.
4.将你的经历等同于别人。
Tell me if this situation sounds familiar: Someone is explaining a difficult problem he's currently facing. You immediately retort with "I know exactly how you feel!" and then launch into your own long-winded tale of a time you experienced something that's not even the least bit similar.
请告诉我下面这种情况听起来是不是很熟悉:某个人正在说他面临的一个难题,你马上就回嘴“我知道你的感受!”,然后就开始你自己的长篇大论,哪怕你说的经历与他那个没有一丁点儿相似。
It's important to remember that human experiences are all different. Your attempts to show empathy are admirable. But in most cases, you're better off just listening and lending support.
重要的是你要记住,每个人的经历都是不同的。你试图表现出感同身受是一件好事。但在大多数情况下,你最好只是倾听和给予支持。
5.Floundering.
5.言语错乱。
We've all had to deal with those people who seem to just ramble on endlessly without a point -- those people who appear to be talking simply because they like the sound of their own voices.
我们都遇见过,有些人说话似乎没有中心,东拉西扯地说个没完----那些人好像一直在浅显地谈论,因为他们喜欢听他们自己的声音。
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