Struggling for the right thing to say -- or post on Facebook -- over a loved one's hardship? You can stop now.
当所爱之人经历困境,你是否很纠结不知道说什么或者在Facebook上发表些什么?你现在可以什么都不用说了。
Turns out there isn't really one right phrase that will make everything better, according to a series of studies published in the journal Basic and Applied Social Psychology.
发表在《基础与应用社会心理学》杂志上的一系列研究表明,实际上并没有一个正确的短语能让一切变得更好。
Psychologists at Wayne State University in Detroit asked 54 undergrads to rate 96 "supportive" statements, tackling eight hypothetical crisis situations.
底特律韦恩州立大学的心理学家让54名本科生对96种“支持性”叙述进行打分,处理8种假设的危机情况。
With the statements, they cast a wide net -- from optimistic reassurances ("things have a way of working out for the best") to phrases designed to make them feel included ("so what if you didn't make the team -- now you can spend more time with us").
通过这些叙述,他们撒下了一张大网:从乐观的保证(“事情会有最好的结果的”),到旨在让他们感到被包容的短语(“如果你没有加入团队,那又怎样?现在你可以花更多时间与我们在一起了”)。
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