这种汽灯技术通常设计得很巧妙,让受害者很难察觉。大多数情况下施暴者都会为自己设计出能隐瞒事实的环境。
比如,一个汽灯操控着可能会把爱人的钥匙从通常放置的地方移开,让对方以为是自己放错地方了。然后操纵者会“帮助”受害者找到钥匙,并告诉受害者“看吧,你总是放在这里。”
Common Signs of Gaslighting:
汽灯的征兆通常包括:
You seem to be second-guessing or doubting yourself more often,
你越来越怀疑自己,或者越来越拿不定主意。
You constantly wonder if you might be “too sensitive.”
你一直怀疑自己是不是“太过敏感”。
You often feel confused, possibly to the point of doubting your own sanity.
你经常感到很困惑,可能已经到了怀疑自己理智的状态。
You constantly feel you need to apologize to your partner.
你一直觉得自己应该对伴侣道歉。
You wonder why, with so many good things in your life, you are so unhappy.
你的生活中有很多美好的东西,但你很疑惑自己为什么不幸福。
You frequently feel the need to make excuses for partner’s behavior.
你时常觉得需要为伴侣的行为找借口。
You often withhold information about your partner’s behavior from friends and family.
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