通过使用类似表示赞同的词,大脑更有可能接受接下来的内容——这样说不是为了批评或辩护,因此更容易让人接受话题的转变。
When dealing with challenging people who are a little difficult or perhaps speaking out of turn, the tip that I give is to turn a stupid question into a new conversation.
遇上不好对付的人时,比如这个人不随和或说话很鲁莽,那我给你的建议就是把愚蠢的问题换成新对话。
The way you do this is to focus on the person who is speaking.
你可以把焦点转移到正在说话的人身上。
People love to talk about themselves, so the way to change a conversation without them noticing is to ask them a question about themselves—whether it’s maybe a recent vacation or something about their children or grandchildren or something they like to do.
人们喜欢聊关于自己的事,所以转移话题还不引起对方注意的方法就是问一个关于对方的问题——可以问对方最近的假期或关于他们孩子或孙子的事,或他们喜欢做的事。
Whatever it is, turn the focus on them rather than you, that way it’s not so noticeable.
无论谈什么,都要把焦点放在他们身上而不是你身上,这样就不会引起对方注意了。
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