这十种“有毒”的朋友还是敬而远之吧_时事

这十种“有毒”的朋友还是敬而远之吧

“多个朋友多条路”。可是，如果你的朋友“有毒”呢？有研究显示，如果一个人感到疲惫、崩溃或缺乏自信，那可能不是你本身的问题，而可能是因为你的朋友“有毒”。那些用语言或行为给人带来困扰，让人感到灰心丧气甚至感觉生活“了无生趣”的朋友被称为“有毒朋友”。如果身边有以下这十种人，最好还是远离他们吧。

1. They always seem to be focusing on the negative side of things

1. 他们似乎总是关注事情消极的一面

Friends share the ups and downs of their lives with each other. However, friends who are toxic tend to always talk about how everything that is bad without seeing any of the good. They tend to ignore all the good which makes you ignore it as well bringing your mood and motivation down. It’s important to help them out with their problems but also make sure it doesn’t affect you negatively.

朋友们互相分享生活中的欢乐与波折。然而，“有毒”的朋友总是要谈论糟糕的事情，看不到生活中的闪光点。他们总是忽略生活中的好人好事，这让你也忽略了它们，使你情绪不佳，失去动力。帮他们解决问题很重要，但也要确保这不会给你带来消极影响。

2. They never listen to any of your problems

2. 他们从不倾听你的任何问题

They always call you when something is wrong with them but never seem to have time for you when you have a problem. They expect you to be there for them when something goes wrong but are nowhere to be found when you need help. Friends who do this leave you feeling more lonely than you realise.