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离婚前你应该知道这些事

Now that I'm nearing the end of the divorce process (it's a marathon - not a sprint!), I'm starting to reflect on the things I wish I had known before getting a divorce period. I don't think there is any real book to prepare you for divorce, as each person's experience is so unique. But as you're headed down the aisle - that's the court aisle - of divorce, there are some things it wouldn't hurt to know as you sever your formerly "forever" relationship.

我的离婚过程已接近尾声（真的是一场马拉松，而不是冲刺！），我开始反思一些我希望在离婚前就知道的事情。我觉得根本就没有一本书能让你为离婚做好准备，因为每个人的经历都是独一无二的。但当你迈过通往离婚的长廊--法庭的长廊，与之前那段"永久的"恋情一分为二时，知道下面的这些事情对你并没有什么坏处。

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1. How It Would Affect My Toddler

1. 离婚会如何影响我的孩子？

My daughter was just turning 3 when her dad and I split, and no matter how often I googled toddlers and divorce, there wasn't a ton of information on how she might be affected by the experience. I ended up pushing for her to try play therapy, and when my ex agreed, we had her attend for a while. It was the best choice to make, but it would have been great had I known of the potential issues she might have had and the ways to help our child through it ahead of time. The reality is no one can predict how a divorce will impact your kids.