离婚前你应该知道这些事_BEC初级作文

离婚前你应该知道这些事

我和丈夫分开时，我的孩子才刚满3岁，虽然我经常在谷歌上搜索关键字：孩子与离婚，但关于孩子会如何受到离婚这段经历影响的信息并不多。最后我逼着孩子尝试游戏疗法，当我前夫同意时，我们让其他人照顾了她一段时间。这是最好的选择，但如果我能提前知道她可能有的潜在问题和帮助孩子度过这段时间的方法，那么情况会变得更好。事实上，谁都无法预测离婚给孩子带来的影响。

2. Don't Use Friends

2. 不要咨询朋友

Don't use friends for legal advice - meaning, don't hire a friend to handle the divorce even though your friend will cut you a break financially. My ex and I started out this way, and the friend was truly lovely and magnanimous at heart to want to help two broke people divorce, but we ended up switching counsel (to mediators) for various reasons. It's been 20 months, and it's still not final. Lesson learned!

不要向朋友咨询法律建议--也就是说，不要雇朋友处理你们的离婚问题，即使朋友少收你们钱也不行。我和前夫就是雇的朋友，虽然朋友很好、落落大方，也是真心想帮我们离婚，但我们都因为各种各样的理由换了其他咨询师进行调解。现在已经20个月了，我们的离婚还没搞定，向我学习吧！

3. Make It Clear

3. 说清楚

Our mediator now was shocked when he saw our divorce agreement. Everything was completely vague and open to interpretation. No, no, no! Don't do it! It doesn't matter if you and your ex are cosy now, because down the line, you may not be. Have everything written in detail, and leave no topics untouched, especially when there are children involved. Too much vague language in your divorce agreement can kill you later on.