这些迹象表明你现在的恋情很糟糕_BEC初级作文

这些迹象表明你现在的恋情很糟糕

刚开始的时候如胶似漆是很正常的--每一段长期的恋情都会在房事上有起有伏。我说的是你们已经有三个月没有性生活了，或是当你发起攻势却一直被另一半拒绝。也有可能是性生活质量下降了。比如，感觉性是件机械的事情，就好像你们没有一个人真正在场一般，而这并不只是因为你必须思考工作或个人的问题。每一次那个时都在发生这样的事情。

2. Your relationship is lacking fun.

2. 你们的感情缺少乐趣。

The healthiest relationships are brimming with positivity and lightheartedness. After all, playfulness helps you to de-stress, connect, and turn to each other in times of need. You should be able to turn off the world and just enjoy yourself when you're together. If you start to feel anxious or stressed when you're with your partner, you might be treading into problem territory.

最健康的恋情充满着正能量和轻松感。毕竟，乐趣能够帮你们减压、让你们心有灵犀、能在需要的时候帮助对方。当你们在一起时，你们应该能够不与外界联系，享受二人世界。如果当你和另一半在一起时，你感到焦虑或压力，那你们可能已经出了问题。

3. Your S.O. becomes disrespectful.

3. 你的另一半变得不尊重人了。

When you start being spiteful, critical, or belittling of one another, it's no bueno. Contempt is the no. 1 predictor of relationship combustion, Voron says, and it's something that couples may not notice if it happens gradually over time. Look for mean-spirited sarcasm - that's a huge red flag.