小孩发牢骚或发脾气时,你会很容易妥协——尤其是当你没有时间或精力解决他/她的问题时。但每一次妥协后给予他/她所想要的东西,你就是在告诉他/她:只要无理取闹,他/她的需求就可以得到满足。如果你希望自己的孩子乐观坚强,一定要坚守自己的底线。你要告诉他/她:我知道你不开心,但你可以学会用更健康的方式管理自己的情绪。
3. Overindulging your child
3. 过度溺爱孩子
You might think it's cute to spend exorbitant amounts of money on your child. Or maybe it makes you feel good that you can give your child all of the things you never had growing up. But there's a lot of research that shows just how unhealthy overindulgence is for kids. If they always get everything they want, they miss out on learning valuable life skills - like self-discipline.
也许你觉得为孩子花钱没什么大不了,或许你觉得为孩子提供你未曾享受过的待遇会让你拥有一种优越感。但大量研究表明,过度纵容孩子会带来不良后果。如果孩子总是要什么有什么,他们就会错失一些宝贵的生活技巧——比如自律。
They'll also be more likely to grow up to be materialistic, which is associated with decreased levels of happiness in adulthood. Set limits on what you give your child. Let them know what it's like to experience disappointment, and teach them how to work for things they want to have.
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