长大后,被过度溺爱的孩子也可能成为唯物主义者,导致成年后幸福感下降。在物质提供方面,一定要设定界限。让他们体验失望并教会他们为自己想要的东西而奋斗。
4. Expecting perfection
4. 过高期望
While high expectations are good for kids, setting the bar too high is likely to backfire. Whether you expect too much from your child on the sports field, or your academic expectations are unreasonable, kids who feel they can't succeed are likely to stop trying. They're also more likely to struggle with self-esteem issues because they'll feel as though they aren't good enough.
虽然高期待有利于孩子发展,但过高的期望却可能适得其反。无论你是期望他能在运动场上有优异的表现还是希望他学业有成,那些感觉自己无法做到的孩子往往会停止尝试。他们也更可能存在自尊心问题,因为他们总觉得自己不够好。
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