没有个人主权意识。
We are expected from birth to listen to and obey the wishes of others. A stimuli that most of us grow up with and the effects of which culminate over time. Ultimately, we lose any sense of personal sovereignty and inner guidance; and thus, we believe that someone else always has the - more correct way - or knows better than we do.
我们从一出生就被期待能听话并遵从他人意愿。我们大多数人成长过程所伴随的刺激及其产生的影响随着时间的流逝达到顶峰,最终我们丧失了个人主权意识和内心的指引,所以我们相信别人总会有更正确的方法,或者比我们更懂。
We discount our own intuition and mistrust ourselves as a result of this learned response. Subsequently, this becomes a filter for how we view the world, and for how we view ourselves in the world.
由于这种习得的反应我们忽视自己的直觉,不相信自己。后来这就成为了我们看待世界和这个世界中的自己的滤镜。
We come to rely on the opinions of others for validation, because we expect that everyone else knows better than we do. And the more we get validation from others, the more we seek it. It becomes an addiction. When we are validated by someone else, it triggers our psycho-biological reward system releasing dopamine into the brain. We feel good. We feel accepted. We want more of that feeling.
我们开始用别人的看法去证实,因为我们认为别人都比自己更懂。我们从别人那儿求证越多,就越愿意去求证,最后成为习惯。我们从别人那里获得认可后就会诱发我们的心理——生理奖励机制向大脑释放多巴胺,使我们自我感觉良好,有认同感,我们还想获得更多的这种感觉。
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