然而,现实生活中,真正做到宽容谈何容易!有很多时候,他会为一丝一毫的事情而斤斤计较,耿耿于怀。事情已经过去了,而他还是老在那想,这么可恶的事情我怎么可能原谅它呢?然后就是在不断的自我咀嚼中,不断的从中受到伤害,难以自拔!有时甚至要发誓“报仇”!哎,仔细想想,何必呢?让自己整天活在过去的种种痛苦和仇恨中,这样的生活是多么悲哀!
However, in real life, it's not easy to be tolerant! There are many times, he will be a little bit of things and haggle over each other. It's over, and he's still there thinking, how can I forgive such a hateful thing? Then it is in the constant self chewing, constantly hurt from it, hard to extricate themselves! Sometimes even swear "revenge"! Well, think about it carefully. Why? How sad it is to live all day in all the pain and hatred of the past!
那么,怎样才能学会宽容呢?
So, how can we learn tolerance?
首先,宽容需要沟通。当自己与他人发生矛盾或误会时,要主动与对方交谈,认真倾听对方的诉说。这样,才能沟通彼此的思想,从而消除误会和隔阂。
First, tolerance needs communication. When you have conflicts or misunderstandings with others, you should take the initiative to talk with them and listen to them carefully. In this way, we can communicate with each other's thoughts, thus eliminating misunderstanding and estrangement.
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