其次,宽容需要设身处地地为他人要想。积极地换位思考,更多地站在对方的角度考虑问题,我们就更容易宽容别人。
Secondly, tolerance needs to think for others. If we think positively from another's perspective, we will be more tolerant of others.
再次,宽容需要忘却。克制性的宽容,不是真正的宽容,它不能祛除感情伤口上的脓水,医治感情上的创伤。只有那种不记、不究的宽容,才是真正的大境界。
Again, tolerance needs to be forgotten. The tolerance of restraint is not the real tolerance. It can't get rid of the pus on the emotional wound and heal the emotional wound. Only that kind of tolerance, which is not remembered or studied, is the real realm.
什么叫“半部《论语》治天下”?北京师范大学教授于丹认为:《论语》告诉大家的东西,永远是最简单的。有时候一两个字,就够我们用一辈子了。“其恕乎!”──就一个“恕”字,教给我们如何在现代生活中获取心灵快乐,适应日常秩序,找到人生坐标;就一个“恕”字,就是我们自己的一幅健康的心电图,是这个世界的一张美好的通行证。
What is "half of the Analects" governing the world "? Yu Dan, a professor at Beijing Normal University, believes that what the Analects of Confucius tells us is always the simplest. Sometimes a word or two is enough for us to use for a lifetime. "I'm sorry!" -- the word "Shu" teaches us how to obtain spiritual happiness, adapt to daily order and find the coordinates of life in modern life; the word "Shu" is a healthy ECG of our own and a beautiful passport of the world.
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