就在一般意义上说说这件事吧。有,总是聊胜于无。通常,愚蠢的问题,如“你喜欢做什么?”,或“最近看过什么好电影?”就能引起话题。很快你们就会转而谈论一些更有趣的东西了。愚蠢的话题不好,却又缺之不可,就算很无聊,也是一种稳定可靠的后备方案。当人们问一个我已经答了一百万次的问题,我未必不觉得要发疯,但是我也不会怪罪他们。在理想的情况下,你可以避免涉及无聊的话题,但是如果你想不出什么别的话来,那就用它们吧,以免冷场。
Take the lead in the conversation if it's not going your way
控制谈话的方向,如果它偏离了你的轨道
Often I'll be quiet because the people I'm with are discussing something where I have zero to add, usually because I know nothing about the topic. If that goes on too long, then I'm suddenly the quiet one. If the conversation isn't going your way, try to take the lead and switch it to an area where you'll naturally have more to talk about.
经常,我保持沉默是因为同处的人们正在讨论我觉得无话可说的东西,这往往因为我对这个话题一无所知。如果这持续得太久了,我就突兀地成了沉闷的人。如果谈话没在你的轨道上,尝试引导和切换到一个领域,你自然会有更多的话要说。
More generally, if the other people are talking among themselves, and aren't making an effort to include you, you should take the initiative and try to work your way in there. There's no rule that says you politely have to wait for someone to directly address you and ask your opinion on something.
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