杜芙说,在传统意义上说,女人可以拥有一切。她自己就拥有婚姻、工作、两个孩子,还有健康的生活方式。但是她说自己为了拥有这些而牺牲了其他事情,比如出席活动。她说,问题不应该是“你能拥有一切吗?”,而应该是“你能拥有对你来说重要的东西吗?”“答案是肯定的,如果你能把事情按优先顺序排列,并且不要按他人的期待来生活。因为每个女人都有一个列表,上面是她认为应该做的事,有的人争取更多时间来做这些事,而有的人则把这个列表缩短,只保留那些核心的事情。”
On Surrounding Yourself With Other Women
关于处理和其他女孩的关系
You may not have said, "You go, girl," since the eighth grade, but Dufu makes a strong case for bringing back the phrase. "We are susceptible to what our peers say, and what they tell us can be the difference between applying for a job or not," she says. "Sometimes you need a woman saying, 'Girl, you need to go for that,' because encouragement and a community of trust is really important. We think we have to do things by ourselves, but the truth is your advancement is a team sport, and you have to have people supporting you."
从八年级开始你应该就不会说“加油吧,姑娘”,但杜芙强烈建议大家重新用上这句话。“我们很容易受同伴话语的影响,她们对我们所说的话可能会影响到你是否去申请一份职位,”杜芙说。“有时候你需要有个女孩告诉你,‘姑娘,你应该去争取,’因为鼓励和群体的信任确实非常重要。我们觉得自己必须亲自做一些事情,但事实是你的进步是团队合作的结果,你必须要有一些人支持你。”
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