“这听起来很傻,但你要做到用75%的时间听对方说,仅用25%的时间表达自己的砍伐。如果你听得很认真,就能更轻松的辩驳对方的论点。
While being prepared and listening is key, he says that you should always have a 'get out' plan.
虽然充分准备和认真听都十分重要,乔纳森说,你还得准备个“停止争吵的计划。
To stop the row 'ending in a deadlock' having a 'preformed solution' can put an end to any uncomfortable arguments and help you to get what you want.
为防止让争吵陷入僵局,最好事先准备一个很好的解决方案,这样可以结束任何不愉快的争吵,还能帮助你获得你想要的结果。
Jonathan's final tip is to try and stay friends with your partner despite the conflict.
乔纳森给出的最后一条建议是,尽管与另一半发生了冲突,但仍要保持你们间的友谊。
'You've got to ask yourself what the end game is when you're arguing with your partner,' he said. 'If you want to embarrass or humiliate them then it's eventually going to be bad for your relationship.
“问问自己和另一半争吵之后想要什么结果。如果你想羞辱或让对方感到尴尬,最终这将对你们之间的关系有害。
'Make sure there's a way you can make up, a sort of escape plan, so it doesn't linger longer than it needs to.'
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