7. Youre dependent
你太依赖对方
Theres a thin line between companionship and support and dependency. If you depend on your partner that is, if you absolutely cannot live without her or him youve crossed that line. The pressure is now on your partner to fill whatevers missing in you a pressure s/he will learn to resent.
互相扶持还是太过依赖,只在一念之间。如果你事事依赖对方,你就越界了。你身上的压力全部转嫁到你的爱人身上,这样的压力,会让他/她最终怨恨你。
8. You expect happiness
你以为爱情里只有幸福
A sign of a bad relationship is that one or both partners expect either to make the other happy or for their partner to make them happy. This is not only an unrealistic expectation to lay on yourself or on them nobody can make you happy, except you but its an unrealistic expectation to lay on your relationship. Relationships arent only about being happy, and theres lots of times when you wont and even shouldnt be.
一段糟糕的感情,其中一个信号就是期望对方会让自己幸福,或者以为自己会让对方幸福。这不仅仅是你对自己或者对方的不切实际的期望,也是你对感情不现实的幻想。一段感情,不仅仅是快乐和幸福,还有很多痛苦、悲伤和难过的时刻。
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