5. The pretty girls get all the good stuff. 5. 美女能获得所有的好东西。
Oh, God. So not true. I unlearned this after years of coaching beautiful clients. Yes, these lovelies get preferential treatment in most life scenarios, but theres a catch: While everyones looking at them, virtually no one sees them. Almost every gorgeous client had a husband whod married her breasts and jawline without ever noticing her soul. 天哪,这绝对不是正确的。辅导一些美女客户时,我才发现这种想法是多么错误。这些可人儿的确能得到更多的生活优待,但不得不提,当每个人看她们的时候,没有人真正欣赏她们。几乎每个美女客户的老公,在意的都是她们迷人的身材和轮廓而非她们的内心。
6. If all my wishes came true right now, life would be perfect. 6. 如果我现在心想事成了,生活绝对很完美。
Check it out: People who have what you want are all over rehab clinics, divorce courts, and jails. Thats because good fortune has side effects, just like medications advertised on TV. Basically, any external thing we depend on to make us feel good has the power to make us feel bad. Weirdly, when youve stopped depending on tangible rewards, they often materialize. To attract something you want, become as joyful as you think that thing would make you. The joy, not the thing, is the point. 想想吧:拥有你想要的一切的人们,也许正在康复中心、离婚法庭和监狱。这是因为和药物电视广告一样,财富也会有副作用。事实上,所有能给我们带来快乐的外界东西都会给我们带来伤害。奇怪的是,当你不再依赖于有形的奖励时,它们偏偏经常出现。想得到些什么,就多想想有了它之后生活会多么快乐。快乐才是最重要的。
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