There are 50 ways to leave your lover, according to Paul Simon. But how many ways are there to leave a friend? 正如保罗西蒙(Paul Simon)在歌中唱到的,离开情人的方法有50种。不过,离开朋友的方法有多少种呢?
I know, its a terrible question. But think about it: Some of the worst breakups in our lives are not with romantic partners. They are with friends the people with whom we often share our deepest thoughts. Friends provide guidance, encouragement, laughter and a refuge. Losing a good friend can be one of the saddest experiences in life. 我知道,这个问题很可怕。不过好好想想:我们人生中最糟糕的分手经历有些并不是和情人之间。有些是和朋友 那些我们经常分享自己内心深处想法的人。朋友能够给你指引、鼓励、欢笑和避风港。失去一个好朋友有可能是一辈子最让人难过的经历之一。
And yet, many friendships just dont last. Some simply fizzle out, victims of routine life events such as moves, job changes, divorce or a divergence of interests. 不过,很多友谊就是无法持久。有些是无疾而终,成为搬家、工作变动、离婚和兴趣不同等普通人生过程的牺牲品。
Others end badly. Rob Wilson, 53, a writer in Atlanta, saw a 12-year friendship abruptly end after he mentioned he was voting for George W. Bush in the 2004 presidential election. Arthur Newton, 46, a hotel manager from Austin, Texas, had a female friend tell him she couldnt hang out with him anymore because her husband was jealous. 有些则是不欢而散。53岁的罗伯威尔逊(Rob Wilson)是亚特兰大的一位作家。在2004年的总统大选中,他向朋友提到自己投了布什(George W. Bush)的票,之后两人之间12年的友谊就戛然而止了。得克萨斯州奥斯汀46岁的酒店经理亚瑟牛顿(Arthur Newton)的一个女性朋友告诉他,因为她丈夫嫉妒,所以她无法继续和他做朋友了。
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