很多人因为缺钱放弃学习,是因为他们没有认识到,正是因为自己缺钱,所以才更要学习。不通过学习,如何能改变自己的命运?最后的结果中会是永远缺钱。我一直都有这么一个理念:生活中什么都可以省,唯有放在学习上的投资是万万省不得的。曾经我在国外时因为缺钱而省吃俭用,买什么都是买最便宜的,但是关于买学校的教材,我是从来不会吝啬的,六七十欧元(当时接近六七百块钱人民币)的一本书我也会毫不犹豫把它买下。别的同学可能经常借我的书去复印,但是这样麻烦而且会浪费很多时间,另外也容易遗失个别页码。另外,正是因为我知道书是自己花了高价买回来的,所以更有把它读完的欲望。所以别的同学可能看了几页就不想看了,我却可以从头到尾把书都读完,原因很简单:我为它花了太多的钱了。 其实学习何尝不是如此呢? 当你花了很多钱去学习某一门语言或者技能,而且这些钱都是你辛辛苦苦存下来或者是借来的,你能不认真吗? 一个富家子弟和一个穷学生在对待同样花了几千块钱的课程上的态度会是一样的吗? 肯定是不同的,而且我几乎可以肯定地说:穷学生的态度一定会比富家子弟更认真。
Moreover, from my studentscase i also see a common problem in our society: when coming across difficulties, the first thing popping up in our mind is not to think about how to try them, but to give up. Giving up is our instinct and needs not be taught, but it is by no means what we need. Many people would feel headache when meeting a small problem and then amplify the problem to find an excuse of giving up. Actually what we need to do is not fearing the problem but trying every means to solve it. If we fear it, it will be amplified by us unconsciously and we would get defeated in the very beginning. This common wisdom can also apply to our study, life and work. When you get addicted to this habit, no matter what you do, you will not succeed, because everything you do will have its own problems, whether small or big.
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