“It’s much better to say, ‘I’d appreciate it if you would empty the dishwasher tonight,’ for example. And when he does, thank him and you can expect more help in the future,” she said.
她解释:“你最好这样说,‘如果你今晚能把碗洗了的话,我会很开心。’诸如此类。一旦他同意了,别忘了谢谢他,这样说不定下次他还愿意帮你干活。”
8. “You’ve put on a few pounds lately, huh?”
8.“喂,你最近是不是又胖了?”
Instead of pointing out changes in your spouse’s appearance, be supportive and tell him you’d love if he joined you at your cycle class sometime, said Becky Whetstone, a Little Rock, Arkansas-based therapist.
美国阿肯色州小石城的治疗专家贝基•怀特斯通认为,与其对另一半的外貌变化指指点点,不如以爱之名,劝他和你一起去上健身课。
“Insinuating that his body is not like it once was will shrink his confidence ― and he’ll probably up his calorie intake just to spite you!”
“含沙射影地嘲笑他的身材大不如从前会打击他的自信心,他可能会因此继续摄入更多的卡路里,这么做只为激怒你!”
9. “You’re going out with the guys again?”
9.“你又准备出去和你的狐朋狗友鬼混?”
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