你确定你的另一半就是你的灵魂伴侣吗?_娱乐

你确定你的另一半就是你的灵魂伴侣吗?

Imagine you are carrying around a faux Prada bag you bought for six dollars. It looks real. It feels real. But how long can you keep convincing yourself that it is?

想象一下你背着六美元淘来的山寨普拉达四处奔走的场景。它看起来是真的，摸起来也很真。可你究竟要自欺欺人多久呢?

Relationships all too often work the same way. Eventually, the fake label falls off, the seams bust, the handles break. The quality just isn't there.

感情也常常是这样的。到最后，仿造的标志会掉，接缝会开线，手柄会坏，质量堪忧。

There are many days we feel clueless, and riddled by blind spots. We rarely understand the difference between 'faux and full' when it comes to relationships. Too often our relationships masquerade as real, and we spend countless months trying to build on something to get us to the next phase, only to discover that we’re trapped by a faux love that's actually going nowhere.

很多时候，我们没有头绪，被一叶障目。我们在感情里很难分清“山寨和正品”的区别，它常常伪装得如此真实。我们花了无数的时间依赖于它，希望自己得到升华，却只发现自己被困在一段虚假的感情中，毫无进展。

When a relationship is real, it's growing; it's going somewhere. You have shared interests, and there's an unspoken acceptance. And without these building blocks in place, you're setting yourself up for a pile of agony and heartache.