4. Refusing to listen to other points of view.
4. 拒绝听其他的观点
Low EQ individuals feel that they are right and will defend their position with great vigor, yet refuse to listen to what others have to say. This is particularly true if other people are critical of how the individual does not understand what others are feeling. They are often pessimistic and overly critical of other people’s feelings.
低情商的人认为他们总是对的,并会十分积极的维护他们的观点,同时拒绝倾听别人的观点。如果他人对于这位(低情商患者)不理解别人的感受提出质疑,那就更明显了。他们总是消极对待并过分质疑他人的感受。
5. Blaming others for mistakes.
5. 责备别人的错误
People with low emotional intelligence have little insight into how their ownemotions might lead to problems. When things go wrong, their first instinct is to blame others. They often blame characteristics of the situation or the behaviors of other people for their actions. They might suggest that they had no other choice for what they did and that other people are simply not understanding their situation. This tendency to not take responsibility often leaves them feeling bitter and victimized.
低情商的人几乎意识不到他们自身的情绪可能导致的问题。当事情出问题时,他们的第一本能就是责怪别人。他们总是把原因归咎于环境的特征或是其他人的行为。他们可能会说那时的行为是因为别无选择并且其他人都不懂他们所面临的处境。这类不负责的方式也常令他们感到痛苦并受伤。
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