你很完美
If your child has low self-esteem, you might think it's a great idea to praise them highly when they do something well. Not so, says Brad Bushman, professor of communication and psychology at Ohio State. Instead, it might make them anxious about having to meet high standards, which can lead to avoiding new challenges.
如果你的孩子自尊心低,那你可能会觉得在他们表现优异时大肆表扬他们是个好方法。但事实并非如此,俄亥俄州立大学传播与心理学教授布拉德·布希曼说道。相反,这样做可能会让他们焦虑,觉得自己一定要达到高标准,从而不想迎接新挑战。
You're so special
你很特别
Naturally, many parents think their children are special. But telling a child they are better or more deserving of success than other kids can turn them into a little narcissist, according to research done at Ohio State University. Narcissism isn't just garden-variety high self-esteem, but the belief that others are not as good.
当然,很多家长都认为自己的孩子很特别。但告诉孩子他们比其他孩子更棒,或者更值得成功却会让他们变得有点小自恋,俄亥俄州立大学的研究表示。自恋不仅仅是一般的自尊心强,而且还认为其他人没那么好。
You'll always be my little girl/boy
你永远都是爸妈的小公主/小王子
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