爱上一个自恋的人，怎么办？_公共英语阅读理解

爱上一个自恋的人，怎么办？

我觉着你知道答案。自恋的人总是忙于自己的事。只是你在努力不愿意放弃那个人，虽然你深知他不能满足你的精神需求。所以请你接受现实，从这段关系中走出来。恋爱应该是付出和索取并存，当付出变成单向时痛苦就开始了。

Respect yourself, take a call and move on. Don’t invest your time and energy on some unrealistic thought.

要尊重你自己，在这段感情中谢幕并继续自己的生活。不要把时间和精力投入到不现实的想法上。

And sorry to say this but the other person is being what he is but you are being an emotional fool. Wake up girl.

很抱歉说这些，但对方就是那样的人，你就是恋爱中的傻子，醒醒吧姑娘。

获得164好评的回答@ Lisa：

Run. Run like the wind. A relationship with a narcissist is NOT a relationship! You are an object of convenience to the narcissist. Not a PARTNER. Carefully and privately plan your escape. Or decline to have a life of your own.

跑开，像风一样跑开。和自恋者的恋爱根本就不算恋爱！你只是为自恋者提供便利的人，而不是恋人。小心秘密地计划你的离开，否则你就没法拥有自己的生活。

That's pretty much the whole of it. If you are truly with a narcissist, the end will be loss of self. The sooner you get into therapy, the better. Or just get out and then find out why you were vulnerable to such a person. I always recommend therapy. But if you can't do that… read a LOT about it before you get into another relationship.