1. Ask them to be honest about why
1. 让父母说出不喜欢他的真实理由
When you find out that your parents hate your boyfriend, your first instinct is, most likely, to get really annoyed, upset, and mad at them. You want to ask how they can possibly say this stuff to you and you might even want to stop talking to them for a few days (or even a few weeks). Even though that's how you really want to act, it's not the best idea right now.
当你发现爸妈不喜欢男朋友的时候,你会本能的感到恼火、难过,非常生气(大多数情况下)。你可能想要问清楚,他们怎么能对你说出这种话,也可能暂时好几天都不想理他们(甚至好几周)。尽管你真的很想这么做,但这并不是最好的办法。
They probably have a good reason for saying this to you. Maybe they think that he reminds them of someone that you used to date and that guy wasn't good for you, so they're worried that a similar situation (and a bad break-up) is going to happen again. Maybe they're not sure that he has a good work ethic or that he's close with his family, and those are values that are really important to them.
既然他们都这样说了,那他们的理由可能也非常充分。也许他们认为,这个男生让他们想起了你以前交往过的对象,而那个对象并不适合你,所以他们担心会重蹈覆辙(分手很难看)。也许他们不了解这个男生是否有良好的职业道德,或者他和家人的关系是否亲密,因为这些对于他们而言十分重要。
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