1.) Social invites are an invitation for a fight
1.) 社交邀请变成了争吵的理由
When you and your boyfriend get invited to your BFF's Christmas party or a mutual friend's Halloween bash, you're excited, right? You're looking forward to seeing your friends and having fun and you know that it's going to be a great night.
当你和男朋友都受邀参加闺蜜的圣诞节派对或共同朋友举办的圣诞节狂欢时,你们很激动,是不是?你期待着与朋友相见、度过愉快的夜晚。
Except… if you and your boyfriend are fighting too much, then social invites are basically invitations for arguments.
除非……如果你和男朋友正吵得不可开交,那这种社交邀请就会演变成争吵的理由。
Your boyfriend might say that he doesn't like the people that you hang out with so he doesn't want to go. He might claim that he's tired from the work week when he's actually upset about something that has to do with your relationship (but he's not talking to you about it).
你的男朋友可能会说,他不喜欢你的这些'狐朋狗友',所以不愿意去。当他对你们的恋情有点失望却又不想对你明说时,他也可能会说,工作一周已经很累了,他不想去。
On the other hand, you might not want to go to something that he's invited to, either, because you might know that you're having some problems but you're afraid to bring those issues up. If you want to know how much is too much when it comes to fighting in a relationship, the fact that you two are fighting about party or event invitations is a huge sign. This is absolutely too much arguing and shouldn't be happening.
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