关心前任或者与前任做朋友看似很“重情重义”,但是最好别这样。苏斯曼和卫恩齐都提到,应该让“被甩”的一方来决定是否还要继续保持联系,而且最好是在你们双方都已经从过去解脱出来后。
Couples should take time apart before trying to become friends, Sussman says. Let at least three months pass before starting any kind of friendship, Winch says — adding that most people who follow this rule opt not to get back in touch. If you’re the person ending things, Winch says you should prepare yourself for that possibility and give your ex their space, as hard as that may be.
苏斯曼说道,情侣或夫妻在分手后应该要过段时间再决定是不是要继续做朋友。卫恩齐建议这个“冷却期”至少要三个月时间,但实际上这样做了的人通常都再也不会联系对方了。既然已经“甩了”别人,就应该准备好面对不可预知的未来,给前任空间(尽管会很难过),放过彼此吧。
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