1) Don’t accuse
1)不要指责
If you want your boyfriend to respond to you in a normal way (aka you don’t want him to get super mad and give you the silent treatment if that’s his usual deal), then you can’t ever accuse him of anything.
如果你想让你的男朋友以正常的方式回复你(也就是你不想让他非常愤怒,想让他给你一个沉默的回答,如果这是他的通常应对方法的话),那么你永远都不要指责他任何事情。
Explain what you’re concerned about and what the issue is. Use plain language and say things like “I feel” instead of “You did this” or “You’re being unfair.”
解释你关心的以及问题所在。用平淡的语言,比如“我感觉”而不是“你这样做”或者“你这样不公平”来描述事情。
After all, if the situation was reversed and he talked to you about what you were doing wrong, you wouldn’t want to hear it, right? It’s all about the delivery.
毕竟,如果情况反过来发生在你身上,他对你说你做的不对,你也不会愿意听,对吧?这完全是陈述的方式问题。
2) Take responsibility
2)承担责任
The truth is that it takes two to tango, to make a relationship work or fall apart, and to have a love story that lasts beyond your wildest dreams.
事实上,成就一段感情或者分手,拥有一段超出你的狂热梦想之外的爱情故事,是一件巴掌拍不响的事情。
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