过节带新男友或新女友回家介绍给家人认识,你的心情一定是既激动又忐忑。怎样才能在愉快舒适的气氛中度过这一重要时刻,让双方给彼此都留下好印象呢?情感专家苏珊·温特给你总结了7条“金科玉律”。
先征得家人的同意
If you're bringing a significant other home, you'll need to run it by your family and make sure they're on board.
如果你要把另一半带回家,你需要先知会家人,征得他们的同意。
"You need to have a preparatory conversation with your family," said Winter. "Tell them that you're seeing someone special and you'd like to integrate them into the holiday plans."
温特说:“你需要先和家人谈一谈,让他们做好心理准备。告诉他们,你恋爱了,并打算带恋人回家过节。”
提前把各位亲戚的特点和节日活动告知另一半
Every family has its quirks and kooky relatives that join in on holiday celebrations. Give your partner an idea of who will be there and the protocol for their behavior, and highlight relatives that you think they'd get along with.
每个家庭的节日庆祝活动都会有几个古怪的亲戚来参加。让你的伴侣知道哪些亲戚会来,他们的言行举止大概是什么样子,并重点介绍几位你觉得能和伴侣合得来的亲戚。
"Give them a 'what's up' as to each person and tell them the conversations to avoid and the conversations they might want to enter," said Winter.
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