A co-worker and I were discussing marriage vs raising children as a single mom, the difficulty in dating again and other things surrounding my life at the time.
同事和我正讨论是该结婚还是做一个单亲妈妈独自带娃、再去约会的困难,还有当时我生活中的其他事情。
I told her I just wasn’t feeling like seriously dating anyone yet.
我告诉她我没有再认真约会的心情了。
She got quiet for a while and then told me that I “really should enjoy being young because one day you will wake up and you will have become truly invisible”.
她沉默了一会儿,然后告诉我“真该好好享受年轻的时光,因为有一天醒来会发现真是没人会看你了。
I was 38 at the time. She was nearing retirement and said a man hadn't looked at her that way in 15 years, except her husband of course.
我当时38岁,她要退休了,她说有15年没有男人那样看过她了,当然除了她丈夫。
She said it literally occurred to her one day.
她说这其实就是一夜之间的事。
It's not just about age either, 20 extra pounds can have the same effect as 20 years of aging. Men you would normally expect to at least glance your direction just don't.
这当然不只是年龄的问题,超重20磅就相当于老了20岁,你本来以为至少会瞥你一眼的男人都不再看你了。
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