有些人内向,就是因为他们知道大多数时候争论不会有结果,只会一团糟。争论的人并没有在听,他们更关注的是赢得这场争论。
获得33.7k好评的回答@Say Keng Lee:
Why are some very smart people so quiet?
为什么有些聪明人很安静?
I can think of the following reasons:
我能想出以下原因:
Very smart people:
很聪明的人:
-choose to talk less, and listen more, in order to seek more information, which leads to opportunities;
-选择少说多听以便能收集更多信息,这些信息才能带来机会;
-seek first to understand; then to be understood;
-首先努力去理解,然后被理解;
-know how to exercise savoir-faire, so as to stay on top of the game;
-知道如何锻炼随机应变的能力,以便能保住游戏中的优势地位;
-understand the realism of “Dumb people talk about people; Average people talk about events; Intelligent people talk about ideas.” (Steve Jobs);
-明白这个现实“蠢人谈论人;庸人谈论事;智者谈论思想。”(乔布斯);
-believe in 'Never argue with a fool, onlookers may not be able to tell the difference.';
-坚信“永远不要和傻子争吵,旁观者看不出你和傻子的区别”;
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