当你被另一半所伤,或非常生他/她气时,不主动沟通是一种自我的表现。谈恋爱难免会有争吵,若拒绝沟通,另一半会非常伤心。
3. You insist that your perspective is the correct one - on everything.
3. 在任何方面,你都坚持认为你的观点是对的。
This is a definite red flag indicating a strong degree of selfishness. If you find yourself always giving weight to only your own point of view, you are setting your relationship up to fail. What you are really saying to your partner is that you are really only in this relationship to get your own needs meet, with little or no consideration for the needs of your partner. If that's the case, you really aren't a partner at all.
这绝对是强烈自私欲的一种表现。如果你总是强调自己的观点,那你的恋情必定失败。因为你向另一半表达出的意思是:你谈这段感情的目的只是为了满足自己的需要,几乎或完全不考虑另一半的需要。若果真如此,那你根本不适合谈恋爱。
4. When you don't get your way, you threaten to end the relationship - even if you don't mean it.
4. 如果事情不如你意,你就会威胁另一半分手--即使你的本意并非如此。
Even in the very best of relationships, none of us is always going to get what we need. If you spend your time threatening to leave your partner, how can they ever grow to trust that it isn't always going to be about you and your needs? Someone who genuinely loves their partner is going to be mature enough and have enough self-awareness to know that it is extremely hurtful to threaten to abandon someone we love just because we don't get our way.
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