倘若我20多岁,我肯定对这个话题不理不睬,甚至会换个话题,但现在我40多岁了,正在为退休而努力攒钱。现实是:我的薪资远低于同一行业中的拖家带口人士。尽管我的业绩表现总是很突出,但升职时却是一次次的被排除在外。因为我没有小孩,大家都期望我加班、为团队背锅,但也正因为我没有小孩,大家都鄙视我、贬低我。
So, this time I calmly asked her, "Do you think having a genetic disease makes a person immature? Do you think watching an 8-year-old relative die of said genetic disease makes a person immature? There are a lot of reasons people don't have kids, and a lot of paths to maturity."
所以,这一次,我十分平静地问她,"你认为患遗传病会让人不成熟吗?你认为亲眼看到一个8岁的亲戚因为这一遗传病离世会让人不成熟吗?人们不生小孩的原因有很多,通往成熟的道路也有很多。"
That did not go over well. Now my presence clears the room. What should I have said? Should I just keep ignoring such comments and changing the subject?
但效果并不是很好。现在只要我一出现,大家就会作鸟散状。我该说什么?我是不是应该继续对这样的评语听而不闻、继续换话题?
- Childless in the Workplace
-工作场所无子女的情况
Childless in the Workplace: You told her what she deserved to hear in response to her cruel, grossly unfounded prejudice. I'm glad you said what you did.
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